But in the meantime, while I'm struggling, I'm learning a lot. For starters I'm much better with asking Jag to turn. Fewer mixed messages being sent. I'm still not perfect but I'm much better! I also had a couple "ah ha" moments understanding better what Betsy is asking me to do particularly with using the reins together to keep Jag's shoulders in between them and straight.
I'm happy I'm improving my riding skills and in the meantime, I'll get Jag's respect back. I'm that frog in the well and not about to quit climbing that wall!